I can't change any locks yet, until the emergency hearing. I plan to stay still as a mouse. I hate this situation. Hey! I just realized I didn't shed one tear today! That is HUGE. I'm scared and watchful - but not aching with loss like I usually am. I am having a tough time. Thank God for all you good people here supporting me. I honestly believe you've all helped me retain my sanity, along with my life. I'll be DBing forever...LOL