The WW does sense when her H truly lets go. She can tell if it authentic. Many WW's will shift into a pursuit mode, simply b/c there is a part of her that wants to keep him loving her. Don't misunderstand what I am saying. It's not that she wants him back, but she kind of wants him to pine away for her. That is why I often encourage the LBH to act as if he is dumping her, b/c of the powerful effect it has with a WW's mindset. I doubt the DB coaches would give that advice. It's just my opinion about the WW.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!