Looking through the calendar the kids are scheduled to be with me on XMas eve and then until the afternoon on xmas day.
I have a divorced friend who told me for the first year we should still try to find a way to all do xmas together. he said maybe ask if she would like to show up early xmas morning before kids wake up or stay the night before. I am not sure if i should offer this or not.
I know for myself i am not sure how to think about it. I know the kids would love it, but approaching it can be construed as pursuing. I m not even sure what she would say.
The whole xmas thing is really weird for us, we have not even discussed anything about it, who is getting kids what, schedule nothing. It is like we are both avoiding it.
I would really like some thoughts on all of this.
thanks
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
