spoke to OW..the 1 he said he has no contact with

[Rain75]

This morning he randomly said to me:

I know you want me to makes changes but you would have to change too.

I ignored him. Waiting for the day this gets easier.

It's true there are things i would have to change. I hate being on edge..negative...bitter and arguing with him about ow. But i have a little peace of mind now knowing the truth.

But his changes should be his priority if he actually wants to try to get me and our family back. Instead I feel as if he is saying that if i don't change he won't either. And that is so backwards.