It sounds like she likes to be chased, and you stopped chasing, so she had to 'reel you back in'.

Is that the case?

I'm sure Sandi and others will have an opinion on this. I'm interested to hear their opinions, and I'll leave mine out until I'm more educated.

Do you think it did any damage, or any repair, to the R?

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)