^^^^ this is what I'm saying:
of COURSE you're angry. Who wouldn't be?!!! But there is a vast difference between owning one's anger and being vindictive. Fight for what is fair to you and both sides, don't get drawn into any vindictive behaviour. At the end of this I want my son to be able to say that his mother stood up for herself and for him, but did it with grace and compassion. That's what I'm advocating for here for you as well xoxoxoxo
sending love and light and hugs

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver