Hi there, you have brought such a smile to my face this morning just seeing the positive energy you have and dedication to your hubby. With that spirit of yours it shouldn't be difficult to strengthen the bonding you already have begun.
You have a great opportunity here to 'nurture' your hubby back closer to you. At first glance, his wandering seems to be to fill a void. This would also flow over to his filling time with work. I unfortunately speak from too much experience here.
All men, especially success driven men, need to be appreciated for who they are. If they don't get that satisfaction at home, the natural tendency is to look for either things they can fix and control, ie work, or things they can take care of, ie EA/PA. The gratification of both fuels the need of the moment, but like a drug, must be continually fed in greater and greater amounts.
Marriage, on the other hand allows the same person such a comfort zone and allows one to love within themselves and the beauty of the relationship.
Time to develop that comfort zone for hubby. He's ready to be home.
