Hi Scrant, it sounds as though you are doing well for just two months in. I would certainly stay on your current course and keep re-reading those few pages of content on LRT if you begin to question yourself.

The whole station issue worked itself out and that sounded like a healthy chat with your S. He is at an age where he can liaise direct with Mum and I think you are right to deflect any intermediary role. It is fair enough for you not to pass on stuff that he tells you and I think you can just reply - Oh I'm sure he'll update you when you next see him - or similar.

Do you see how what you are doing gives her the message that you will carry on with your lives without her? It also gives you some space and time to gather yourself without the highs and lows of time spent in her company.

Keep on going my friend....you're making progress. It does take a lot of time, so please don't expect any early movement.

Take care x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus