V, I'm going to throw out these facts with no dialog about them. Your wisdom will be able to connect the dots.

Easier to be hard on men learned from father, my sisters were not treated this way.
Did not achieve my highest potential, father hard on me, I was hard on son till I realized it.
Insecure of myself, not smart enough, not good enough, inadequate.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus