Thank you so much Ancaire! That means so much to me
I fell like this is the most extreme end of GAL. And it's the one I'm least comfortable with, tbh. I might try some lower key GAL next, one that's not quite so in your face.
Thinking a bit more over last night...there's a very young woman at work. She's very beautiful, intelligent and charming too.
She was there, at the second part of my GAL last night, dressed to kill and looking amazing.
But you know what I've noticed in the few years we've worked together? She hangs on to every guy like there's no tomorrow. And what I saw last night? She was having an intense one to one with one of the newer guys who has started working there. There was a lot of flirting on her part. She's very conscious of being so pretty, so there's a bit of manipulation in there as well.
She's beautiful, but beyond that, when you look at her patterns of behaviour, she gives the impression of someone who is insubstantial. There's not enough of her own personality and spirit there to feel. It doesn't matter about either liking or disliking who she might be, that's almost irrelevant. What you want to feel is someone's substance.
It also gives her an air of neediness and desperation. And it makes me want to keep her at a distance.
I know she's very young, so it's maybe not very fair to say these things, but I don't get the same feeling from the others that work there that are the same as her.
I don't know if any of that makes any sense at all.
