If you combine what heather and bttrfly are saying you will have your answer. Fight for what is rightly yours. Dont be vindictive and ask for everything. So channel both the anger and some compassion and you will come out ahead.
This is a long hard road we are on. To win we have to fight for ourselves right now. In the end you want to be happy with your self.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"