Originally Posted By: mutatio
V, I don't know whats wrong with me. Some days I think I'm co-dependent and other days I think I'm to hard on myself. I have stopped making progress in myself or my marriage. I have lost my motivation, passion, drive and am just treading water.


There is nothing at all wrong with you! Absolutely completely totally normal, this journey is one of challenge.

Meeting your challenge is just the next hurdle. It's usual to loose motivation on life's journey, I would be worried if you didn't stumble, loose your motivation, didn't have resistance. Treading water is necessary sometimes.

I guarantee that your subconscious is working on this. Just stating it is very important, you can't tackle something that can't be acknowledged. It is very important a precursor step.

Just recently I had to face that challenge.

So let's tackle that resistance Mutatio, you have a fan club here all cheering you on. Do you have real life IC at the moment? these are issues they may be able to work on with you.

Are you prepared to shift?

You know that V wants this for you very much.

I have noted your comment on Jellyb thread and am musing on whether that is your resistance area?


V

Last edited by Vanilla; 12/14/15 09:01 AM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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