Your time reading here would be much better spent reading more of some of the very successful DBers. There is a thread here that has several successful sitch's listed and threads linked.
I just like to talk.
I would not mention the momento if it were me, well if it were me I would have probably. But I think it would be best not to mention it!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"