thanks for the welcome, pam. 5118 posts - wow. i must set time aside to catch up on your stich. well, here's my first journal. hope to be more refined as i get the practise in
The Good
1. H is more attentive, more physically demonstrative, hugs often, holds hand while in public, caught H looking at me intently several times over weekend -and the rest 2. H shared with me his concern about OW’s future – H talked about it as if he is no longer in the picture. ‘Now that she knows she has lost me …” 3. Had a great 2 days doing stuff together for the house, shopping etc . we tackled an especially difficult project, wall decoration for a difficult side to the living room
The Bad
1. Had a weepy moment this afternoon, triggered by sight of momento given by OW that H still keeps in his key pouch. BAD. I cannot control H keeping momento, I must work on my reaction, and HAVE PATIENCE. Q to piecers out there – should I mention to H that sight of this momento rattles me – or does it give the A more importance in OR? 2. Same old, same old this weekend in terms of activities – must think of something different next week – add to goals – diversity, mystery
