Sotto, I don’t know what he suggests yet, since we didn’t have that conversation he said we need to have. He always wanted the vacation home condo, and this what he wants me to sign off to him. I don’t know what is fair. I ‘m on the opposite side of the struggle. What H gets, my son will not, since he is not his biological son and not adopted.
bttrfly, this is what I’m trying to do – not to act from the place of anger. And then Heather disagrees with that, LOL…
Heather, thank you for your compassion and for 2x4 . I see where you are coming from. You know my story so well. I probably would feel the same way if I would be reading about my sitch from outside. I think you are on the other side of the fence now. I’m not quite there. I’m (was) kind of still standing for my M. I think I’ve been suppressing my anger, because I was still hoping that H would wake up one day. I’m going through the grief process all over again now, since I think I finally lost that hope and realized that this is it. I’m almost sure that the anger will surface when the D process starts. I will have nothing to lose then.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
. I see where you are coming from. You know my story so well. I probably would feel the same way if I would be reading about my sitch from outside. I think you are on the other side of the fence now. I’m not quite there. I’m (was) kind of still standing for my M. I think I’ve been suppressing my anger, because I was still hoping that H would wake up one day. I’m going through the grief process all over again now, since I think I finally lost that hope and realized that this is it. I’m almost sure that the anger will surface when the D process starts. I will have nothing to lose then.