Hi everyone – finally feel ready to post, and would welcome feedback from you wonderful people out there.
Briefly, I am 39 yrs old, H is 41 yrs, we are school sweethearts, have been together for 21 years, lived together for 18, married for 10. since last June I noticed changes in H’s behavior, nothing major, just more attention to looks, clothes, unpredictable movements etc
H dropped bomb on October 11th, was having ea with ex-colleague (42 yrs, m with 2 kids). I did all the wrong things, cried, plead to end, to no avail. In fact, EA escalated to PA shortly after. Some attempts to end have transpired, most recent one has held since March 11th.
I discovered michelle, dbing and this wonderful bb mid-feb and have seen some great results. Up to now, I have been a little sloppy with goals and journaling, and having spent the last few days reading sage’s progress, I feel I need to be honest with myself, and having the board to post to seems like a good motivator!
