I am thinking that I would probably end the M myself if she still doesn't want me in 10-12 months. I recall that somewhere in DR, MWD said to expect about 1 month of recovery time for each year of the marriage. I really want to give it a fair chance.
I should clarify: I meant that I would probably start takings the first steps to end the M myself if I have seen no progress at all in 10-12 months. I don't expect for things to be full recovered in that time. I just want to see some signs that things are really moving in a positive direction.
Me: 39 W: 36 M: 8 yrs T: 10 yrs S: 7 W started coming out with the truth: 9/26/15 W finished coming out with the truth: 11/12/15 W started sleeping in guest BR: 11/13/2015