Your H is in a very hurt place, and truly this isn't about you for him. It's about himself. He is confused and bewildered. Needs space, he is telling you that.
He is a WAH, I understand his position on it. I am a WAW myself, it's a confusing place to be. A tussle between trust and fear.
That being said if you can't detach from ML, if it loops you then that isn't a good route for you in my view. There is much healing to do with the bipolar II syndrome and an A to recover from. With type II then meds and therapy can bring you closer to manic episode release and ads can help with depression. You may never have another manic phase again. It will take work. Cadet knows more about this than I do. I know enough to understand bipolar is largely physiological as an issue. It isn't a personalIty disorderbut has serious behavioural consequences if unmanaged.
The fact that you had an A is likely hurtful to H, he will work at his pace not yours. ML can be healing and this has to work for both of you.
Sweetheart you are the one here, all power to you for standing and wanting to repair your self and your M.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/14/1501:26 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
