You are very fun to talk to V. I never understand women (or men) who are uptight about sex.
If you are made to feel perverted, monstrous, and repulsive, neglected and rejected for years, and ultimately abandoned and shunned because of your desires, it might feel a bit different.
Be careful of assuming that a high drive makes you like a guy. Maybe so. But I haven't met a woman that is wired like I am either. It's possible I suppose. I hope so. But the desire for frequent sex doesn't necessarily match the underlying motivations, outlooks, or why it is so critical.
Anyway, to the question at hand...I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone but a committed life partner. It is too important and intimate for me to share with anyone else. And anyone that could have more casual sex and look at is as simply physical stimulation I don't know that I could trust with my intimate self because they wouldn't understand the value of what I was giving.
Zues this is your sitch.
Your feelings about yourself are uniquely yours to own and you do. It's the way you feel about it, can that heal?
Most of sex to me with a committed life partner is fun and enjoyable. That's my view of it and apart from the end with WH really satisfying for me. I have a high drive which I'd more masculine in style that doesn't make me like a man.
Nothing about the sex is casual, just because it's fun and enjoyable doesn't make it casual.
I wish for you a great satisfying R with a terrific accepting sex life and a life partner that is other than casual. I want that for you very much that you have your hearts desire.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
