It's valid because we can't afford two households in such an expensive city. He says I'm accustomed to him just figuring things out and he's not wrong. It will be very stressful wondering every month if I can pay the bills etc.
I have no credit history and no income so with his signature on a lease I'm not getting an apt by myself. Getting a citizenship can take up to 6 months. Don't have enough time if he files for ,D in a week and wants me gone end of next month.