Jelly - I really don't think it's about our bodies. My H's OW is fit but short. I am tall and lean. I am more beautiful and he knows it and has said it. But I still feel dumped and crappy about myself so I totally relate What I may have in confidence about my looks and intelligence OW has stripped away with Her youth. My body has born 6 children - hers none. But I know it's not about that either sorry this was no help to you but just know we all feel the same no matter what we look like
