Max I cannot see how i can show my W love right now I am being told left right and center that I have to back off from her she is not interested in spending time with me As Pho said, by backing off, STFU and concentrating on working on yourself so she does not feel smothered. It is hard to bear a smothering H, much less a smothering LBH.Read the great article on Love v Smothering
I am not sure how I can show her my changes ...your words....she may be prepared to give it a chance if there was something to attract her you are offering her the same misery with nothing to attract he We are told here to work on ourselves, be the best we can be, only a fool would leave, you get the drift. Do this, work on yourself and show her a new G 2.0. Otherwise what incentive does she have? I am not saying that working on yourself will get her back, only that if she is to consider anything with you she needs to be sure your changes are real and also what she wants. If she wants a secure and self respecting G, doing the housework is fine but will not get her back. I seriously think (and it is my opinion) that your smothring, controlling of her and your relationship as well as taking her for granted was what really pushed her away. I dont think it was just the housework.
I cannot push for anything period Exactly.
I have not spoken to her about me filing for a divorce this is something that she wants to do and as such I am not going to be the on to bring up, Exactly.
I am actually enjoying doing the housework it takes my mind,off things here Great but dont make it your flagship change
