Well I've been married for a long time with young children, not so creative any more! And now just when the kids are getting more independent my H decides he wants out. Great timing on his part. I am pretty easy to please actually. Just happy to be wanted. Which I am no longer. Can't compete with the lonely coworker in the middle of a divorce who does backwards flips on trampolines for fun and has no children demanding to be taken to pesky doctor's appointments. Sigh.