Max I cannot see how i can show my W love right now I am being told left right and center that I have to back off from her she is not interested in spending time with me
Ghost, you do it by backing off. Completely. Pretend she is your neighbor.
I am not sure how I can show her my changes ...your words....she may be prepared to give it a chance if there was something to attract her you are offering her the same misery with nothing to attract he
I cannot push for anything period
You are right, stop pushing.
I have not spoken to her about me filing for a divorce this is something that she wants to do and as such I am not going to be the on to bring up,
Exactly, don't bring it up. If she does, respect her wishes, just go along with it. Don't facilitate the process, but don't try to stop her either.
I am actually enjoying doing the housework it takes my mind,off things here
You are welcome to clean my house, it could use a good cleaning. I spend my whole day on this forum so you are at least being productive.
