I am sorrry tl2. I think for my sitch my H's low sex drive saved me from him actually turning his EA into a PA. He told me that when he told OW that I questioned him if it had turned physical that she actually laughed. What kind of woman would laugh at that? If I was truly a "friend" to someone and their W had that concern I would be devastated and ashamed of myself and she'd be getting a sincere apology and call from me with assurances that I wasn't touching her H. I think she was waiting for my H to make the first move and she would have been all over him. Who knows what is in these waywards minds, but it is beyond selfish.
