Zues, I think also that my definition of "high drive" is relative to my H's. I have been with him and only him for 26 years. I would be happy with 2x per week, H thinks that is very high. He is on a once per 2-3 weeks cycle. So maybe my "high drive" is really average, but I am comparing myself to someone with a low drive.
I feel like I am more like a man because I think about it all the time, and want it all the time. However, if I was with someone who was giving it to me on a regular basis, maybe I wouldn't be thinking about it as much. Maybe I'd even turn it down sometimes. I don't know, I have never been in a position of having my frequency needs met. Quality is great, not complaining there. But quantity is very frustrating. Always, except maybe for the first 2-3 years of dating.
