GB - ok I'll admit I'm scared. Scared to death that will completely end our R.
Your R is already over. Your actions of self-care aren't adding to the downfall and end of your relationship in the least. His affair is destroying it all by itself.
Get out of God's way. Take care of yourself and your kids and if your WH wants a real caring relationship with you again, he knows where to find you.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
