I have been thinking on this. I really, really, really like sex and have a good sex drive. So when I get the rare opportunity with H I go for it, but lately it leaves me feeling an emotional void because 1- there is no ILY, and 2- no good kissing. So do I just say no until I get those things? Keep in mind if I hold out I may never get some again as long as I am M to H.
I don't want to ask for an ILY because that seems like I am playing games. I can ask for the kissing because that is a physical thing, I have asked for it during and he puts a little more into it but not to the degree that I want. So if the opportunity arises, what can say without sounding pathetic or manipulative? Do I just stfu?
