Things that I love about my wife I love her smile I love her charisma I love kee caring nature and her love for our children I love her strength and her beauty I love the person that she was and the person that she became over our marriage I love how warmth We were partners and had each other's backs in times of difficulties she was my friend and my lover I loved her touch I would have liked to have seen more personal touches of particular moments . These seem so general but OK I'll take these as good enough reasons.
Max it was suggested to me that perhaps a name change might make me feel different no longer feel like a shadow of myself Ok no problem I was just making a comment not questioning it.
I love my wife and I love my children if her master plan is plenty of swapping then this is fine if this is what it has to be ...I see family life as a unit of togetherness and I get it that this is not what we have right now So does this mean that you will no longer post anymore about how about if you separate your children will bla bla bla?
I have limited time before she tells me that the house goes on the market and she starts pushing forward with her plans The more you do thigs your way the shorter the time. If she does decide to push then let her do the work. Also make sure you are well assesed by a lawyer.
You talk to me as tho I am doing nothing to change myself to become a better person YUP got that right.
The only thing that I can see you saying over and over is that I need to grow a pair and I need to start doing thighs for me I get this . Then when are you going to throw some old spice between your legs and become a man?
The changes that I am making to myself What changes? we nt going to mak [censored] difference to my W NO so why persist in keeping an eye on her reactions? I am making these changes to be a better person You keep saying this but dont seem to have made any. Then you say things like why do changes if your W does not take notice. Which is it? to do my share of the housework means nothing to be a better father means the world to me I really dont think the issue was lack of housework and being a better father is great but change is much more than this.
