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[Mona52]

Gmum, You were right. She does not want to deal with him and she does not want to see a fight, and she was right. How dare I fight in front of the daughter!

I apologized to her. I told her that I was just angry and I was never angry at her. She said she completely understands and she said it is OK for me to be angry every once in a while.

I would fly over Grlonfr, but i seriously cannot sing

(((Judy))) it is so nice to hear from you finally! I hope you updated your thread about the job interview! Yes, sometimes minute by minute my decision changes now, but the first time, I was mostly sure I wanted H.

Painter, no, there was no agreement at all for him to pick her up. He never helps in any way. He saw them on Thanksgiving, he might see them on Christmas, and I asked him to do new years so I can go out, and after me begging, he finally agreed. But, yesterday I sent him a text to see if MAYBE he could pick her up last night. I did not actually expect him to. So when I was at my party and I never got a text from him, I figured he was not going to pick her up. So I left the party to pick her up.

The problem is he never told me he would do it. So I had no idea. I never expected him to, I just asked.

But,I have to also mention one part of your sentence... "How could you expect him to do it on such short notice?" That part is a struggle for me. Because EVERYTHING with 3 kids is short notice. You cant plan a day with notice to prepare when you have 3 teens. That is why it is so hard with no help. You have to juggle schedules so tight that every day is like minute to minute.

He is a parent just as much as me. He has responsibilities just as much as me. There is zero reason why I am the only one doing everything. HE says he cant because he has a full time job. I also have a full time job, a part time job and I go to school full time. It is no fair. At All.