Klassic, I am definitely not holding myself out as the example here, I'm weeks away from my D being final. But I'll tell you what I felt was right. After BD but as long as we lived together, I continued to be a wife in all ways including regular sex. It was something I wanted, I never felt used or resentful and I also didn't believe it was going to keep him. It was for me. I didn't initiate any of it, but I didn't turn it down either. After he moved out, that was the end, even though on more than one occasion I could have made ever so slight of an effort and we would have without a doubt ended up in bed. I point out the difference here because moving out was the dividing line for me. My choice. Whatever you decide, make it your choice.
