Pho - I do know how that feels - my H was in an EA with his now PA OW for 4 years prior to BD. but he would never admit there was anything more than friends (she was calling him "babe" in her texts to him during that time- ya right "just friends"). H said he was committed to me and I trusted him and jumped in with building our retirement home and was growing closer and closer - the whole time he was telling OW he was miserable and she was encouraging him to leave me - - and then he did - and they STILL work together. He has let it slip (while drunk) to work colleges that they Are living together - yet continues to deny to his children and parents that there is anything going on - that they are not even dating
I am, have been, and will continue to be strong but I need this vacation - and so do the kids!!! I hope it is the right thing to do. The kids are all looking forward to this. The only other family vacations we ever did we're low budget driving to Florida - So ALL INCLUSIVE here we come!!!!
