Oh Judy - I have missed you:) That definately struck a chord with me when you said how advice directed at others makes so much sense but I still can't grasp it when it is for me. I do agree with you - you/me are worth more than what our H's are doing/giving us. I know my H wants us all to be fine with his choices and just all be happy together with him and OW. Yet at this point he hasn't told his family and he has said to S22 they are "nothing". So what is with that?? For him to not be "the bad guy" he thinks a more respectable amount of time has to pass? There is no amount of time that will make what he has done "respectable". Yet many of his friends have totally accepted his new OW
What are your plans for Christmas? Have you been seeing a lot of your new grandchild?
