Mona, reading your description of events, I'm confused... did you have an agreement in place with H that he was going to pick up D that night? If not, how could you expect him to do that on such short notice?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17