Number 1.D. Took me a bit to catch up! Your W, and why she wants to be friends. Lots of different reasons, but the main 2 for her???
Easier and her giant ego.
If you're still good buddies, life is just great. "Dad and I get along great! We just don't live together." I can almost hear her...
Ego? Self explanatory. "Look how wonderful I am - even my ex still loves me!"
A part of you just sighed, and another part is irritated with me, right? I've been right here with you on these boards for months. Her behavior is so true to typecast, I can probably predict most of her moves. I'm not hatin' on your W. Just trying to help you with a little clarity.
Number 2. So, your friend wants to set you up with a single lady? You'd like to go? Best get moving on that Divorce right away. Do not date other people while you're still married. I'm sure you were thinking about a casual meeting, or maybe you were planning to do it after divorce...but I can't let this one go by. A married person should not date. Live in such a way you have no regrets. Wait until after D. What if you like this woman? Then she has to wait on your D? Who would feel good about that? Low-down, pond-scum sucking OP's, that's who! No integrity, low/no morals, lack of character...just...don't...don't put yourself in such a position. (I guess I feel strongly about it...lol)
