Hi Lou, it's great that the store want to keep you, and if better hours are available, it might be best to stay put for a little while longer and see how it goes. That way you don't need to make big changes to your own life and have some opportunities to link with your H on a more frequent basis. I've had similar discussions with my boss. He is keen for me to stay, I'm not sure about my longer term plans and don't want to let them down. But even if you only stayed another nine months and decided to move on, where's the harm?

I can recall reading that drawing closer to your spouse again does bring out the feelings of anger. It is something to work through. Your H is working through a lot of stuff himself, so it may be tough for him to face your anger too. I think you are wise to let the small stuff go.

Take care Sweetie xx


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