Hi Scrant, well done on that one. Yes, I think she hopes to show others - we're all okay with this...Scrant and me are still good pals etc...

I've taken the view that whilst H is with OP, he will get very little access to me. If he makes a significant change I can reconsider that position.

Sounds like you have done well during your S's absence, which can't have been easy, so well done to you.

Enjoy your soup! Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus