Letting go of the child inside

[ATPeace]

Max

Things that I love about my wife
I love her smile
I love her charisma
I love kee caring nature and her love for our children
I love her strength and her beauty
I love the person that she was and the person that she became over our marriage
I love how warmth
We were partners and had each other's backs in times of difficulties she was my friend and my lover
I loved her touch

Max it was suggested to me that perhaps a name change might make me feel different no longer feel like a shadow of myself

I love my wife and I love my children if her master plan is plenty of swapping then this is fine if this is what it has to be ...I see family life as a unit of togetherness and I get it that this is not what we have right now

I have limited time before she tells me that the house goes on the market and she starts pushing forward with her plans

You talk to me as tho I am doing nothing to change myself to become a better person

The only thing that I can see you saying over and over is that I need to grow a pair and I need to start doing thighs for me I get this .

The changes that I am making to myself we nt going to mak [censored] difference to my W I am making these changes to be a better person to do my share of the housework means nothing to be a better father means the world to me