I'm not sure anymore. I guess it depends on your perspective. Europe is the safer more comfortable choice. I'll have a sibling and the grandparents will be around 3-4 hours away. But I'll feel like an oputsider. I'll be lonely. I'll miss the US.
Here everything is expensive. I don't even know if I'll have health insurance. How can I pay my bills. But I like it here. I like the mentality. If I leave my D will lose her American streak - my H's words - but if I stay she'll always have her European side from me/us.