I have one D, but always wanted her to have siblings. It's killing me that that won't happen. Or any siblings will come from her dad and some OW.
Decluttering [censored], it's nice afterwards but making the tough decisions is he!! under these circumstances. If my H gets his way and I have to move overseas, I'll have to leave everything here with him. I'll just have a few personal belongings, my clothes and my D's stuff. That feels weird - 15 years and nothing to show for it.
Soooo..... I can relate to wanting to stay in bed all day.