Thats good..we have to resist urges that won't serve us or the situation
we are all a work in progress this MLC path just opened the door for some of us to speed it up
The kids do see what we are doing as the main parent who is raising them we are the one who has their back and at the same time I always still say positive things about their absent dec if his name should come up
I say he was a good man..hard worker he loves them very much he is just not well at this time there may come a time later that he can be there for them I have faith and I also have moved on I don't need him anymore I am happy with my life and it keeps getting better
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow