Hi Pink. I think Sotto is right. You need to move forward as if H is gone for good. That doesn't mean he can't sweep you off your feet if he changes to a man you would let into your life one day
I don't normally argue with you so maybe our first fight !!!!
You clearly love him. It's in every post You are clearly in a huge amount of pain and you are dealing with something you never thought you would have to
In the walk around you were trying to get a reaction and its completely understandable , your H is trying to stay in your life but not in a way that's good for you.
I hope you can see this is not a criticismI'm just trying to show you how it looks to me. When H said he was leaving the things in the garage , a detached Pink would have asked how long for ? Or said ok but I want them gone in a couple of weeks
Pink. I honestly cannot understand your H and can only put his behaviour down to MLC , that doesn't help your but maybe it will let you see that even H can't understand what he's doing Your have admitted you part in the marriage failing but Hs choices were all his
Now after all the above , please remember that I am in love with you and would whisk you away from all this pain if I thought that would help but I will wait until you have dealt with your feelings for the man you still love !!!!!
I have a positive feeling Anjo , that H will emerge from his fog and your family will be united again.
This does cause a huge problem for us being together but we will worry about that in the future ! !!!
