Pho, no way I could have said it that well, but you stated everything I would have. Mu, it's finally sinking in to me, you can not work on anything that she is unwilling to work on. But, like pho said, you have a great opportunity to lead your son to become a great man. He may have seen you at your roughest moments, but he is seeing you transform into a beautiful butterfly (manly, of course) from the caterpillar you were.
Stay the course, and enjoy what you can of the ride!
You rock mu, don't beat yourself up.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....