Your wife does not care if you go out flying a bloody kite. Leave her the [censored] alone already!!! What is it that you do not get? Is English hard to grasp for you? Can I tell it to you in German? Hör auf!!!
And again with the mind reading! YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR WIFE THINKS. And even if you did, her thinking is skewed. She would be rewriting history to justify her actions and you would be bad guy No. 1. Who gives a rat's ass what she thinks? For [censored]'s sake... I would be also pissed if my W was adding males on FB. You are not a terrible person if you felt the same... My W, prior to BD, felt very strongly that there can be no friendship between a man and a woman, that is always leads somewhere.
So again, focus on you and your kids, stop snooping, and for the love of god, let your wife be!
