Julie,

I had one conversation where I not only didn't validate, I argued and grew angry. I'll link my post on what I did and how I handled it. You've got this.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...501#Post2502501

Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15