so much hurt and anger

[peacetoday]

T

I don't know if its cake eating or not
I think you are both in transition
we don't know the outcome
as hard as it is right now, you are establishing a new R
I felt for me it was good during our separation, that we became friends
my XH visited a lot the first few years
The kids saw us get along,,it was hard on everyone
at the same time, we have to focus on taking care of yourself
therapy and time to heal
as for his parents, I understand your anger
but they are dysfunctional and probably don't have a clue whats going on
forgiveness comes in time
take good care..