New or false hope?

[JulieH]

I reread 2 key points
1. He did Nickle and dime me despite not paying for many months.
2. Unaware that I knew my rights, he was trying to convince me to agree to
something that court would have favored me on. This is sleazy. I try not
To be dishonest with myself or anyone.
3. His finances make no sense,

Why am I concerned with what he thinks? Why am I worried he does not want to reconcile? I had a right to be mad and Frusturated. But I feel it's at expense of us getting along.

He is mad and frusturated because I brought him to court (found it humiliating and said we could have worked it out together) and because I am not working full time. Who is right?