Raliced - That seems very immature on how he handled the situation, and subsequently put your D7 in the middle (by saying "Mom is going to be real upset").

Our kids are roughly the same ages, and we have been here roughly the same amount of time. A huge part of my life is missing. My longest relationship. My best friend. Etc. I'm not okay with being D'ed.

But what is the alternative?

Would you like to be married to someone who leaves their D at their neighbors?

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015