LBH, Nearly 2 Years (2)

[123mich]

tl2,

Thanks for the feed. I seriously need someone to tell me straight up.

You are engineering more probability that you two will not be able to rebuild your M, or you're adding a lot of time (weeks, prob months!), difficulty, and more barriers for your W to have to get over before you can make any progress.

I know what I was doing was wrong but in the moments I can't control it.

Immature people a driven by their feelings and appeal of instant gratification, the easy road.

This is W personality. She goes for the instant gratification and easy road. I am so screwed!

You are taking the exact same easy road by feeding your emotional addiction to her. You're essential doing the exact same thing as she is emotionally.

Never realized I was acting the same way. Thanks for shining the light on this perspective.

So knock that s--t off, bro. STFU. Take care of and work on yourself. When you release her to her path of disrespect and failure to commit, you also release yourself from the pain associated with your unhealthy attachment to her.

I need someone to be straight up to knock that s--t out of me.