I don't have any great advice on how to handle this. I too would be outraged at the injustice of it all, and I do not know how I would handle it. I love Sunnys idea though. Sounds like a way you can possibly remain true to your self.
Just wanted to wish you lots of luck for Monday.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
